The lessons grief is teaching me:
- You blame everything around you. All of a sudden WhatsApp is annoying because you can’t see the status nor receive one from your loved one. Facebook memories too… They somehow tend to remind you that she’s no longer there.
- There are a lot of “I don’t care” moments. Like what more can happen than this loss? Also a very dangerous one for that I don’t care moment can be a make it or break it one.
- Anger. At who? At everything else that led to losing the loved one.
The reality is death is inevitable. No one wins against it. It takes loved ones without shame. Our lives are changed forever when we lose that special one. My goal is to use this change positively. This fearless me should accomplish it all 💜.
This sums it up 💜
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Hi Madame,
I am reading your blog and there is so much that I can relate to. I am completely inspired by your journey and what I have read, your doings, are a model for me to transforming pain into something positive. I have, like yourself, suffered the loss of many loved ones, the last being my older sister in 2017. The first immediate family member that I lost was in 1996 March 13th, I will never forget that day, because I watched my brother being knocked over by a car. I’ve lost many people and somehow, the grief has led me down a path that has not always been kind, nor filled with light. I am slowly getting there and coming across your Twitter, then this blog, is a step towards more light. It’s not easy to let go, but we have to in order to move forward.
Thank you for sharing your journey and may you continue to walk in light and truth.
Blessings,light and love. Manqoba
Namaste🙏🏿
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Dear Manqoba,
Thank you for your message. When I blog I forget it’s online and can be viewed by anyone… But your message reminded me that it does reach people who are going through the same thing as me.
As we continue healing let’s not forget the beauty of life.
As you said Namaste 🙏🏽💖
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